By Robin Fisher Roffer
Could playing small be what’s keeping you from winning big in business?
Each time I sit down to watch an episode of Mad Men I’m drawn in by the power that Don Draper commands in a meeting. He knows that he’s got the right idea. His cocksure pitch blankets the client in confidence. With total faith, they believe that the campaign will work to increase sales and build their personal reputations as genius decision makers. And whether it’s Cool Whip or Clearasil, Don and the Mad Men of Sterling Cooper Draper Pryce deliver. More…
By Robin Fisher Roffer
Why is that when we get what we want it can feel like a hollow victory? Maybe it’s because we didn’t really need it after all.
A few weeks ago I made a list of what I needed and what I wanted in my life. This was soul-searching work. For so long I had operated from a place of want. I bought things because I wanted them. I had that extra glass of wine because I wanted it. I chose partners and projects because I wanted to be wanted. My wants were primal and fleeting.
It was not in my nature to work from a place of need. Even admitting that I needed anything was painful. More…
By Robin Fisher Roffer
Feeling self-conscious? Doubting your value? It may be time to throw yourself a party.
I have been celebrating my birthday over the past couple of weeks. I attended intimate dinners and cocktail events that I arranged in my honor in Chicago, New York, Atlanta and Los Angeles. As I made my way across the country, each night I would walk into a room filled with people I love. In turn, the next day I came to my meetings happily in service.
Injecting more love into your life is essential to your success. That’s because closing deals and building relationships is no longer about selling, it’s about serving. We serve others when we bring love into the room – when we compassionately listen to their challenges and provide tailor-made solutions. This naturally happens when you leave your problems and ego at the door and operate with principled intention. More…
By Robin Fisher Roffer
Quality and customer service are no longer differentiators. Innovation is what creates a sustainable competitive advantage.
I’m feeling like the word “marketing” should be retired. I know this may sound like blasphemy to most of you, but what I see driving success in large corporations and in small businesses is not traditional marketing, it’s culture.
The American Marketing Association defines marketing as “an activity, set of institutions, and processes for creating, communicating, delivering, and exchanging offerings that have value for customers, clients, partners, and society at large.” More…
By Robin Fisher Roffer
Some of us peak in high school and some of us find career fulfillment at 70. Have you hit your peak?
At the beginning of December, my 13-year-old daughter told me that she wanted to switch to a private prep school after Winter Break. The alternative school she was attending was no longer challenging her and she wanted more structure – a place where she could feel a sense of accomplishment. More…
By Robin Fisher Roffer
Make a resolution to be the one that others can count on.
The week before Christmas I had a big workday planned in Los Angeles with clients at Sony Pictures Television and FOX. Rather than fly in the night before and miss dinner with my daughter, I decided to take the 7:30am flight out of Albuquerque.
I got up at 3:30am, did my make-up and hair and slipped on a dark grey sleeveless Jackie-O style dress, a pair of Trina Turk high black boots and a leopard print trench. I was dressed for a winter’s day in LA, not Santa Fe where it was freezing cold with snow and ice on the ground. More…
By Robin Fisher Roffer
With fewer opportunities for advancement, 60% of Americans are considering going back to school. Should you?
Last week during my monthly touch-up, my hairstylist announced that he was going back to school. George was excited about transferring his talent for making people beautiful into a new career as a plastic surgeon. His plan is to work his way through school over the next seven years. I was completely inspired by George’s focused determination to reinvent himself, and I knew that he wasn’t alone. Frustrated by dead end careers, a lack of job prospects and the need to enhance skill sets or be left in the dust, adults are going back to school in droves. More…
By Robin Fisher Roffer
If you’re stuck in neutral and you need a new job, then get out of your own way and give back.
I know it seems counter-intuitive, but if you’re feeling paralyzed by uncertainty and doubt, my best advice is to resist isolating and get out into your community. Helping find a cure for cancer by running a marathon, volunteering at a local museum, lecturing at a college or industry event, advocating for a worthy cause or mentoring young people will make you look like a leader, someone who has dimension. More…